I pay $333.33 every month. According to NY law If he were to get divorced would he lose custody of his kids because he is a convicted rapist? My nine year doesnt want to go anymore because she says it makes her feel bad to hear her grandmother call me that and she doesnt like being punished all the time. We ended up canceling the divorce and the OP because he wants me back, and I dont have the money to pay an attorney. He violated the restraining order and went to jail for 4 days. My wife has stated that she does not want the cvhildren to visit me this year because she wants them to get used to living in AZ. Can I get physical custody if he took him unlawfully? me at age 13, I formed a relationship with a man that was 5 years older, and I There has been a motion for a divorce, but apparently nothing files since I have not been served. not saying all grandparents are manipulative but my sons step grandmother is. I was told that if I do not have a court order and I dont, that I could not keep the kids from him UNLESS I have mental health prof, to back me up on his behavior and I do. Its doubtful a Court will sympathize with your failure to pick up your child, harassment of the other parent, and frivolous use of the police for $25???? With all this said I just want whats best for my daughter and her well being. my question to you is my brother is a sex offender. My ex and I have joint legal n physical custody of our son with reasonable parenting time. Ive asked the cops if I can do anything, they say no, if she ask them then they hae to check. I have been there and its not fun. Why cant the family courts grant time to fathers in a frequency, duration, and type reasonably calculated to promote a strong and loving relationship between the child and the parent? And a major perk of this great new job is travel, I have a chance to take my daughter to Hawaii this summer and maybe to China and who knows where else. My cousin left the U.S.A. with his child 10 years ago from Arizona in good faith with a notarized agreement between his ex wife and himself allowing father and child to live out of the country for 3 years and renewable every 3 years. And is this a form of custodial interferance? at all the norm, in fact my childhood was tragic, than they made us close our I truly think there is much more to this story so all I can say is put aside control and show your son some love and respect on his decisions as it will go a lot further in your relationship. Can I legally keep him? I had to get another attorney that turned out to be a complete A-hole and was incompetent as can be. She left for her parents leaving me with our daughter. After we had already made similar arrangements for thanksgiving but the day he was to leave she got mad and pulled some crazy attitude started a verbal altercation and said he aint coming. Why is it supervised? 115 . Not doing so will enable more problems. Claiming she was ill and thats why she didnt show. I have since filed paperwork to establish a custody/visitation motion in Maricopa County, AZ. Either or both parents can file for sole or shared custody in Massachusetts. I hope this helped you out a little and if I can help any more just let me know. The section which describes optimal arrangements by child's age is particularly helpful. Two days later, my phone Is there anything in writing as far as a parenting plan or court order on who has custody? CPS has also been called by my ex, stating that I have told my daughter to lie, am calling the Sherriff went it is not necessary and abusing CPS. The father is a sperm donor and what does that make you? Davids family gave testimonies to the judge insisting I was a danger. My Parental and civil Rights have been seriously violated by the orange county CA court system and the dont care. and can i be chargered as a runaway? A single mother to child is when a the father of the child have no connections, when the father does not communicate to the child nor does he pay child support. She continues to talk to this man that lives in WV, there is no custody agreement. My son feels like his son has been kidnapped by her. You can pay $28 per month and get unlimited answers to your questions. I am quite ignorant when it comes to legal matters and in this situation he always seems to have the upper hand. no to a child choosing someone to live with that is not entitled to custody. Now all I can see is that he is doing it out of spite. My sister has moved many times with out letting her daughters father know an has changed her number with out informing the father they have joint custody can this be considered kidnapping we live I I have a court signed divorce settlement between my exwife and I. The court ordered the grandparents to make all exchanges of my grandson. Whenever I talked about us establishing some legal custodial rights to protect both of us, thats her thing making sure I have to power or say so when it comes to my son. I was granted visitation with my kids every weekend, Saturday 4pm to Sunday at 6, and split holidays. This is not his family reunion but yours. This is also reflected in the state of Georgias statutes (google the state statutes and go down to child custody). Me and ex husband have been divorced now for 7 hrs we have joint legal custody. Legal Aid in Alabama is a huge joke. He nearly killed me. 2451. The truth is that custodial parents keep children from non-custodial parents far more often. tells him that O. Sr. wants to seal him and take him way and that he does not love him. I had a nervous breakdown. How should she proceed? Many states also allow certain defenses to custodial interference. A few years of trying to find her we got a letter from the courts saying that we owed the state for child support because she had received government help and named him as the father. Ive filed domestic abuse reports against my sons father and my sons auntie, on his fathers side. If you know the guy and are on good terms with the same goal you could file a class action suite of return (both of you file the same thing in conjunction of each other under the same hearing). I has a mediation conference call with my daughters mother and both our attorneys a week ago to agree on some motions that we filed prior to our court date. And how long should we wait to call the police after he is not returned? Click on my name and go to that web site its not mine it says framed fathers but its for all parents whose children are being kept away from them illegally. Two years ago my husband and I decided to seperate, I moved out of the marital home and we made a verbal agreement to share custody of our daughter who was under my care during his 2 deployments. I only get to see my 9 year old daughter once a week due to both of our hectic schedules. If you plan to file for custody on your own, you may want to readRepresenting Yourself in a Civil Case. Check with the county clerks office (typically the one where the case was filed) and they will help you out. (720 ILCS 5/10-5.5) Sec. You make it sound like such a burden being a parent. I want to go back to maryland whrre i will have a support network to help the kids and i. http://www.causes.com/causes/635417-pas-intervention/about. Of coarse with allowing them to have a relationship with their bio mom, that does not have any stability or home, cant keep a working phone They have resentment towards me now. I asked him if I could have our son on his Wednesday over night and the following day so I could take him on my family reunion. Ok look thats offensive to the dads that are in there kids lives. If your ex refuses to deal with your daughter, pick her up from school or be a parent, change your perspective and look at it as another opportunity to be with her. Our society needs to stop and realize our children need love. But, youve already petitioned for a contempt of court so its a moot point now. This is a very hard area to give advise in as I am sure both of your parents love you. Could I get Temporarily full custody of my niece and nephew once they are placed in foster care? When I told the ex that out daughter would be able to get her orthodonics he was upset saying that it didnt seem right that the new guy could do that for HIS daughter. To visit their mother only at his discretion. Make peace. Still other states will not apply the interference charge if the child is sixteen years of age or older and there are yet other states that will not file charges if the child is returned before the arrest warrant is issued. Speaks horribly to my grandson ( he is 4) about my son. I HAVE MY OWN REASONS FOR THIS ANSWER:(GOD BLESS THE KIDS. In your case document everything and file a Contempt of Court immediately. Ashley Holter, 27, and Nicholis . He asked us at the first of the year to please find a way for him to come live with us. THE LEAST HE CAN DO IS GET OFF HIS BUTT Wowsounds like youre tired of paying his child support for him..huntyjust remember that the things men do to their exs is sometimes doomed to be repeated on you.if he has a type then that means you are it and so is she.be more constructive and stop tearing the other woman down because she gets your husbands attention.just be quiet it has nothing to do with youaccept that and you will be better off because in the end it will wind up being what he tells you himself.dig?dont take on his battles if it doesnt require.. Take her ass to mediation. I have the child and she called an officer we have spoken to whom called me and said that he is going to file custodial interference on me. When my ex-husband and I divorced in 1999, I had physical custody of the children, and he was listed as primary residential parent. 2C:13-4(a) Interference with custody (including Parenting time) under 2. Court date is not for another month and I had her for one night and 1 I brought her to her mom she cried like I had never seen her cry before because she was scared she may not see me for a long time. For the past five years she has made excuses and has only allowed me to see my children from time to time. She is not helping him at all and I wonder how long she has been a lawyer because she doesnt seam to know much. OK I HAVE A BABY MOM AND SHE WONT LET ME SEE MY SON WE DONE WENT TO COURT I HAVE SET DATES AND TIMES THAT I CAN GET WAT SHOULD I DO SO THAT I CAN PICK MY SON UP ON MY DAYS. Do i follow the protection order or the child custody order? And is always harassing me whether he has our son or I do. She got rid of her car, we told her to let us have him thru the week so he could go to school and she said no. I hope I helped as you have a very difficult case at hand. (a) As used in this Section, the terms "child", "detain", and "lawful custodian" have the meanings ascribed to them in Section 10-5 of this Code. Now, they cannot enforce our agreement since it is not a court order but in NJ I do have the same legal right as parent as mother at least until a court order states otherwise. Parenting time is a time to be a parent to your child. If you're unmarried, but you and the other parent signed a voluntary acknowledgement of paternity or there is already a court order which says you're the father, you must file: A copy of the signedVoluntary Acknowledgement of Paternity, The Affidavit of Indigency and Supplement if you can't afford the fees. My daughter suffered 23 years of severe mental abuse The papers say she has to notify me anytime he is sick and I havent got even 1 courtesy call on his well being. If I DO NOT take my son out of the county where he lives, do not tresspass on his fathers property and my son WANTS to see me, can he stop the visit? They told me to go and wait until he was transported to the jail and then I could get him out. Im so confused. I cryied while I was reading your comment. He just shows up. I have since found out from my son that my father has been leaving him home alone while he goes to the bar for up to 5-9 hours at a time, as well as telling him lies about me and attempting to alienating him towards returning to me. My ex doesnt let me take our son any other than 48 hour a month. I was wondering that if my Ex and I have Joint Legal Custody if she can change daycare without me knowing and then tell me afterwards and is this vialating my custody rights? You could also request longer visitation times for summer and holidays. I am sorry to say this but you are nothing special. I have filed child abandonment papers against her and allot of other papers and she is using an attorney that she has been to court against .ANY ADVICE WOULD HELP. you name it she is calling.Anything??? I have a court order to have custody 3 day a week and everyother Sunday.Since July I have seen my girls 11 times today is Jan 25. My ex husband took my 13 year old daughter. This definition misleads people to believe non-custodial parents are the ones keeping children from their parents. There is a great spell caster called Great Owologbo who You will need to talk to an attorney or someone at the courthouse where the case has been filed. they disconnected their phone, and i cried day in and day out, called cops to do a welfare check and told them to bring me my kids since the father didnt want to take care of them and now that i am back in nm, they are an hr away. Sometimes so lonely, without being seen much, and without perhaps a presence he ultimately desires to share.. To work for, and not be with the purpose he realized is what he was made for. So IF YOU ARENT A LAWYER WHAT ARE YOU AND WHAT HIGHHORSE DO YOU SIT ON TO YELL AT US THRU WORDS!! Joint Legal Custody is in effect. To date only one state, Illinois, has legislation with respects to a child known as parental alienation to prosecute should a child be taken against that of a court order. 9A.40.060. pd and got my girls back. What should we do at this point?? He changed his story over and over. I know I still have a legal right to visitation whether I can pay or not, and he has not mentioned the child support as a reason not to see her. when they dont do their job good,what is the point to go to the court and see the judge supposed to help and protect the child when is not happening im sorry but all this systems works wrong they want to wait until the child be in the hospital or about to die than do something NO WONDER SO MANY CRAZY PEOPLE WANTS TO TAKE JUSTICE BY THEIR OWN HANDS because is no help at all and make you frustrated because is your child the one is in this situation the one you have them 9 months inside you and only a real MOTHER who gave the birth of her child with pain can suffer and worry for him/her and a real and excellent DAD would feel the same specially when they are so little and innocent,confuse,scare,intimidate,they dont know who is bad or good and if they do know they just love them both parents is not fear for a child to go through this and is not fear for a good parents to be frustrated with no help ALL THE GOOD PARENTS SHOULD HAD THEIR KIDS FULL CUSTODY AND VISITATIONS FOR THE BAD ONES UNTIL ONE OF THE PARTIES FAILURE ;IS ONLY FAIR ,THE KIDS WOULD BE PROTECTED AND ABLE TO SEE BOTH PARENTS.THEY DONT DESERVED TO LIVE IN THIS NASTY MESS FROM IMMATURE AND CHILDLESS ADULTS.SHAME TO THEM. HELP!! You are not allowed to unilaterally (on your own accord) terminate parental rights. If you are calling and disrupting their time together to control or make them miserable or uncomfortable that can be considered obstruction or parental alienation especially if it is execesive. Im wondering if he can do this to me? Im so scared for him. What action can I take to allow her to remain in my custody? But you really cant afford to wait any longer. She has had it for 6 months now!!! THEY BELONG WITH ME not their LUNATIC wanna b dad. If you just talk bad about him, you look like the bad parent, because you had a child with him and choose him as the parent/partner. MOST IMPORTANTLY PRAY!!! YOUR RIGHT ON THAT ONE! She wants me to get children on sunday morning and bring them back sunday night. But we both moved to WV last year Would I be charged of kidnapping and do jail time BC my son father is threatening me with me being charged with kidnapping But I was told after being in the state of WV for six months or longer without father having any contact with the child is consider abandonment I need some advice please and thank you.. it may be contempt of court but it is not kidnapping. Custodial interference is an attempt by one parent to disrupt the custody rights of the other. i live in alabama and currently going thru divorce with my childs father who is incarcerated on sodomy of a 15 year old and assault. He has 3 brothers here and all of my husbands family is here. Good luck! ?help, go file for a divorce and a parenting plan. custodial interference by relatives 50 mass. But, this is the way he has been treated the whole time. What about aunt restraining a nieces daughter? There is no custody order in place and the child has been with my daughter since birth. My question is: I live in Az but my 2 boys live in Ga with there dad. In March of this year I was contacted by DCFS in Illinois about sexual abuse to my daughter by her mothers husband, I was given custody of my daughter at that time as her mother was charged with neglect. my boyfriend is consider the custodial parent per a child support order. A new parenting plan was signed by the Judge. That will give you peace. This sisnt the first time Ive had to call the cops on him for not giving her back either. Ill be praying for you that everything works out for the best for you and your family. to take care of our daughter for free instead of her current daycare to avoid me paying anything above the $800.00 that I have been giving her, especially after my daughters mother told me that I would only have to give her an extra $100.00 to put her in that daycare center? If you have sole custody, and no court order, then you make the decision. I have a question and a pressing issue at hand. Random call, since she hadnt called me in over 3 months. my 9 y.o had scaring in the rectum. He contributed his entire 401k account to three years advance child support. Take it all with you to court showing you have evidence that you are not able to see your child because of the other parent. The courts also put an order forth for myself to have the children every other weekend to take the kids to see their dad who they adore. I think I saw that when he is 16 he only needs 1 parent present- but I do not want to do it that way, but will if need be. What legal rights do we have, I am sure I as the grandma do not have any legal rights to stop her from doing this but does the Dad have any legal rights? My question is: Can my exhusband simply keep my 18 year old? The ex took my daughter back to the same home she was removed from due to physical and verbal abuse. our son and then filed asking that I pay support on both kids and has Of course, the same goes for you. We are very exausted , we are doing as parent and the court system always seems to be in her favor . But when two adults file for divorce, all the sudden it becomes the business of the state to determine who the child will live with and how often the child can or cannot see the non-custodial parent. so why in the freakin world can my husbands ex and her mother fly them to cali (thier mother didnt go just sent them by themself) to someone who has no court documents no insurance or anything on our kids but my husbands ex has an investigation on her for interfernace of custody! You will need to go to your county website OR the courthouse where they can direct you better. ). This is for your daughters protection. forget about the childsupport that doesnt mean everything i am a dad with full custody of both of my children. Then, he will either reply or your covered with plenty of notice. 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